Failure and Growth

Hi Everyone,

       In life, we all hate to fail. Failure to us is like losing everything, especially if we fail in front of everyone. What if we promised our parents to graduate or promised the family to go on this once and a lifetime trip? What if we wanted to get employee of the month or work hard to become CEO for this big company? What if we promised our sons and daughters that gift for their sweet 16 or even their graduation gift? However, something just gets thrown in the mix and mess us up causing us not to fulfill our promises. We often feel very bad. We feel that we let someone down. We take a hit in our self-esteem level and get dogged out by our egos within ourselves. Failure is a hard thing to swallow especially if we don't experience them often. We constantly want to be perfect. Mostly in everything that we do. Failure is a constant reminder that we are not and we hate to be reminded for that because that is something the world does not accept. 

        We hate it so much that we don't even want anyone to bring it up. Its like re-opening wounds for us, or shedding light on our list of horrible moments in life. We just can't handle it. Well, like there is a con to every failure there is also a pro to every failure. We have an opportunity to look at them and learn from them. They also shape us into the people that we are today. Whether we sit down and learn from it or not is what shape the future tense of ourselves. 

     It is okay to accept failure because it gives us all an opportunity to grow. From our own mistakes, we learn much. This is how its set up. The Earth is a big learning school for us. The failures that we have in life is really the Heavenly Father teaching us about whatever it is that we need to be learning. Everyone learns differently; everyone has different ways of shaping, learning and growing. So that means that we just continue to learn and grow from our experiences and not to dwell on them. Yes, it's shape us to who we are now whether we learn from them or not, but it's always important for us to just continue to move forward and experience more of what the Heavenly Father has in store and continue to grow. Spread the Love guys.

May Abba Bless You Always.

May Peace Be With You.